We all want to experience LOVE, HAPPINESS & INNER PEACE in our lives.
Just because you're divorced DOES NOT mean you don't deserve it.
Ready to create your NEW life After Divorce?!
Want to find out if YOU are ready to (finally) start moving the f*ck on after divorce?!
Take this free quiz or download this free guide to find out!
I'm Lucinda. I help women fast track their healing, define their new identity and reclaim their awesomeness after divorce.
When divorced and divorcing women come to me, they are usually feeling...
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Stuck in their grief
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I’m so sad...no, PISSED...no, embarrassed...no, resentful!
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This is NOT how I saw my life turning out.
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I feel like no one gets what I'm going through (and I'm pretty sure people are judging me too).
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I just know that my friends and family are sick of hearing me complain about my divorce.
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Trying to define their new identity as a single woman.
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I dedicated so much of my life to being a wife and mom...and now what do I have to show for it?!
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Most of my friends are still married...who am I going to hang out with now?
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I'm too old (and tired) to start my life over again.
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Confused about what's next.
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I'm totally overwhelmed about the thought of starting over.
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How am I supposed to move on from this?
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I'm pretty sure my Ex is out living his/her best life and it's just not fair!
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Will I ever feel happy again?
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Will I ever find love again?
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Worried about their kids.
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How will the divorce impact my kids?
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What if my kids are mad at me because of the divorce?
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Coparenting?!
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Like they CANNOT BEAR to read one.more.self.help.book. They are ready for ACTION.
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I've read all that I can read, but I need help from someone who "gets me".
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I struggle with what to do next...I need accountability and action steps to move me in the direction I want to go in.
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That's where I come in.
Divorce can really shake shit up...but it can also be a fresh start to a
truly amazing life.
You DO deserve it. NOW is your time.
When I met Lucinda, I was a complete mess! My husband asked for a divorce after 26 years of marriage. Not only was my world turned upside down, but I was terrified! Lucinda was absolutely amazing. She sat with me in my tears and then worked her magic to show me that my life wasn’t over, it was just changing. Through our work together, I have been able to come to terms with my divorce, stop obsessing about my ex and feel more hopeful about my future. I have a long way to go, but I never would have gotten this far without Lucinda’s help! If you need help getting over your divorce, she is your girl!!
I couldn’t figure out why I was having such a hard time moving on after my divorce since I was the one who wanted it. Lucinda helped me realize that even though the divorce was my choice, I was still grappling with a lot of grief…and GUILT. Lucinda helped me “manage the muck” as she likes to call it. She taught me super simple strategies to help me reframe my thoughts around my divorce. I’m in such a better place after my work with her. Thank you Lucinda!
I reached out to Lucinda for help with co-parenting with my narcissistic ex. Lucinda was amazing at helping me not only understand narcissism, but also with helping me create really firm boundaries with him. Now I know that when my ex and are getting into it, I need to just step back and disengage. I wish I knew these skills sooner!
Meet Your New Coach
Hi, I'm LUCINDA.
I am a Certified Clini-Coach® with more than 18 years in the mental health field.
Running a psychotherapy private practice for years and also having been a divorced mom myself, I have realized that my professional experience coupled with my personal experience makes me one.badass.coach.
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My divorce was one of the best things that ever happened to me.
While it may not have felt that way at the time, I can now see my divorce as one of the most lesson-filled, life-changing experiences of my life.
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I may be badass, but I love the "woo-woo".
I believe in the universe, the law of attraction and living my soul's purpose. I love me some manifesting!
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I'm a sports mom.
The balance between work, personal life and SPORTS can be tough. But I wouldn't trade watching my kids play the sport they love for anything.
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I am a recent breast cancer survivor.
Want to know how to really have your life flipped upside down? Get diagnosed with breast cancer at 42 years old. What has this experience taught me? I am even more badass than I thought.
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