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"6 Ways to Start Moving the F*** On
AFTER Divorce"
Create A Life You Love After Divorce!
I'm Lucinda. I help women define their new identity and reclaim their awesomeness after divorce.
When divorced moms come to me, they're usually feeling...
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Shame and guilt (and every other emotion under the sun)
- Why me?
- What will people think?
- I feel like no one understands what I'm going through.
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Unsure about their new identity
- I don't even know who the hell I am as a single woman & mom.
- All my other friends are married - who will I hang out with now?
- Have I just signed myself up for a lifetime of binge watching Netflix with a pint of Ben & Jerry's?
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Confused about what's next
- I'm never dating...ever again.
- Even IF I wanted to date again, I wouldn't even know how to meet someone.
- Who's got the rulebook as to how long I should stay single? There is a rulebook, right??
- Maybe I should just date myself...is that a thing?
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Worried about their kids!
- Will this divorce screw my kids up forever?
- How do I manage all of my emotions AND their emotions about it?
- Coparenting????
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Like they CANNOT BEAR to read one.more.self.help.book.
They are ready for ACTION.
- I've read all that I can read, but I need help from someone who "gets me".
- I struggle with what to do next...I need accountability and action steps to move me in the direction I want to go in.
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That's where I come in.
Divorce can really shake shit up...but it can also be a fresh start to a
truly amazing life.
We all want to experience LOVE, HAPPINESS & INNER PEACE in our lives.
Just because you're divorced DOES NOT mean you don't deserve it.
You DO deserve it. NOW is your time.
What if you could begin to move past the pain and exhaustion of divorce right now and start Reclaiming Your Awesomeness?
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Sift through the shitty feelings and start moving the f*** on
- Divorce sucks...but it does not have to ruin your life.
- Tame the guilt, reduce the shame, let go of the anger...those feelings won't heal you.
- Your new chapter is starting. Grab your fancy pen because guess what? YOU'RE the author!
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Reframe your divorce
- Everything (and I mean everything) happens for a reason.
- Embrace the lessons you learned from your marriage.
- Explore what new opportunities lie ahead.
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Define your new identity
- Figure out who you are now as a single woman/mom and who you want to become.
- What are your dreams and core values?
- Get into a relationship...with yourself.
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Feel EXCITED and HOPEFUL about the future
- Dream Big.
- Be brave.
- Be courageous.
- Love yourself.
- Kick ass.
That's what I help divorced women achieve.
As a Transformational Coach, I help divorced women:
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DEFINE their new "normal" as a single woman and mom
Children AND adults thrive on structure and routine. I can help you create new routines and rituals to get life feeling "normal" again.
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Get CLEAR about what's next
It's time to focus on your hopes and dreams for the future. Let's figure out exactly what that looks like for you. If you don't know what that is yet, we'll figure it out together!
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MASTER Mindset
You're finally ready to STOP feeling sorry for yourself and guilty about putting your kids through the divorce and you're ready to focus on creating your NEW LIFE. The right mindset will help get you there.
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Learn to fall in love...WITH YOURSELF
That inner critic of yours? Tell it to piss off! Together, we'll get you reclaiming your awesomeness.
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LOVE YOUR LIFE AGAIN
It IS possible. You DO deserve it. It's NOT too late.
Meet Your New Coach
Hi, I'm LUCINDA.
I am a Certified Clini-Coach® with more than
15 years in the mental health field.
Running a psychotherapy private practice for years and also having been a divorced mom myself, I have realized that my professional experience coupled with my personal experience makes me one.badass.coach.
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My divorce was one of the best things that ever happened to me.
While it may not have felt that way at the time, I can now see my divorce as one of the most lesson-filled, life-changing experiences of my life.
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I am a positive psychology enthusiast.
I study and research happiness in my free time. I even give local talks in my community to provide tips and strategies to help you feel more content in your life.
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I'm a sports mom.
The balance between work, personal life and SPORTS can be tough. But I wouldn't trade watching my kids play the sport they love for anything.
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I LOVE the TV show FRIENDS.
Like, love it love it. I have watched the entire series of FRIENDS more than 30 times...and it still makes me laugh.
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